You Have Permission To Be Your True Self – Even If It Displeases Others

I help people-pleasers who are stuck living for everyone else set boundaries, wake up, and be themselves for the first time ever. You CAN have a life that is genuine to you!

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You don’t have to live for everybody but yourself.

Set boundaries guided by principles, and you can tackle any situation that comes into your life authentically.

I’m NOT teaching you how to be a jerk, although it might displease some people when you start standing up for yourself, I’m helping you discover who you really are. If you can show up real in your life, your life gets BETTER!

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I’m Nick

People call me the People-Dis-Pleaser because I teach thousands of people every week to set boundaries and break-free from people-pleasing. (And that can be displeasing to the people that love to walk all over you!)

You CAN live a life that is genuine to you, people-pleasing isn’t your forever. Trust me, I’ve walked that road from people-pleaser to captain of my own life.

I was right where you might be right now . . .

Does this sound like you?

  • You think you don’t know how to change and you need a bigshot coach to show you how
  • You keep buying golden price-tag coaching programs and surprise, surprise, you’re buying ANOTHER program from the same coach the next year that a;so promises results
  • You’re convinced that if you just had the RIGHT method you’d finally reach your goals in 30 days or less

You sound like one of the thousands of people addicted to “self-improvement.” It feels SO GOOD to look at it, but not actually do it. We can spend hours reading endless books about the work, planning the work, talking about the work and dunking in ice baths to inspire the work . . . but eventually we need to BE ABOUT THE WORK.

​Do the work.

What these boundary builders have to say...

I learned so much in Nick’s boundaries class and implement the knowledge on a daily basis in my personal and professional life. The most valuable lesson was leaning that boundaries are more internal and setting limits for myself vs focusing on the actions of other people. It’s up to me to stop saying yes, and focus on what I really want. I love how open Nick is about his own vulnerabilities and lessons he has learned. He has a honest approach to teaching and cares about his clients.


It’s not an exaggeration to say that working with Nick has changed my life. I’ve learned some approaches for both my work and personal lives that have enabled me to navigate priorities and relationships, thinking of others while also considering myself. Nick is also someone who is easy to talk to and relate to — he understood where I was at and was able to work with me to craft a plan that helped me reach some specific goals that I had in mind. I’m grateful for the time spent.


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912 Nicholas Pollard
"Boundary Builder"

A recovered addict and a former people pleaser Nick Pollard has lived the experiences of living someone else's life. After years of self-transformation, training, and practice, he has coached thousands of people all over the world to transform how they establish boundaries, how they show up in the world, and how they live the life they want

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Every human on their path to becoming their true, authentic self is going to need boundaries and lines in the sand based on principles. Boundaries are NOT as scary as you think, discover the first steps here!